The final important salutation of the Victorian era was the passing salute or bow, used when the lady or gentleman was in motion, rather than stationary (as at the commencement of a dance). Writing in 1863, Thomas Hillgrove explained that the passing bow
is the proper salutation for both sexes when passing each
other in the street or in public places, and is performed without
halting. It is a proper salutation also on entering a parlor or
ball-room.
Hillgrove actually wavered a bit as to whether a lady should make a full courtesy or merely a passing salute when entering a ballroom. Allen Dodworth, in 1885, emphasized the importance of the knowledge of the different forms of salutations and when to make use of them:
The manner of making these motions are sure indications of the
standing and associations of both lady or gentleman, but more
especially of the latter. The various circumstances of social
intercourse requiring their use in almost unlimited variety,
unmistakably show the difference between good habitual motions and an
occasional attempt.
He later expanded upon this:
Every degree of respect may be indicated by the courtesy and bow in
their several forms, from the supercilious nod, which says, "How are
you, Billy," with an upper inflection of voice and sneering expression,
to the movement which plainly means, "I present myself before you with
profound respect."
As I have already discussed the methods of making the gentleman's bow and lady's courtesy in the context of a ballroom and the beginning of a dance, this post will review the nuances of the passing salute.
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